Life is not binary. It's whole, integral. Jealousy or kindness, love or hate, lust or avarice — all these are the various binary mess of our mind. All these originate and grow in the direct as well as covert totalitarian training of Hierarchy. We carry over these binary urges only until we start looking at them with a steady, calm gaze, getting to know them properly, knowing who they are, what they want from us. They dissolve into our natural selves once we know fully well their true nature by our prolonged eye-to-eye contact with them.
N.B. I was taking notes in my native Bangla language on Seeds of Authoritarianism. This is a piece from those notes translated by myself from my website which is in Bangla laguage untill now.]